Speaking of Teens
Ep 25 – Part 2 of 2 - Teenagers, “Rape Culture”, Sexual Assault, and Consent
NOTE: If you haven’t listened to Part 1 - Episode 24, I recommend that you stop here and go back and listen and then come back and listen to this Episode 25.
Last week in Part 1, we examined the backdrop of societal and cultural issues, social norms, gender stereotypes and the justice system that combine to make sexual harassment and sexual violence the norm among our teenagers.
Today we’ll dig deeper into the level of sexual harassment in our schools, the discussions we’ve overlooked having with our kids, federal and state law and how this all plays into the issue of sexual consent (or the lack thereof) among our teens and tweens before discussing exactly what “consent” looks and sounds like and how to talk to your teen about it.
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Sources, Resources and Mentions:
Ep. #24 Part 1 of 2 - Teenagers, “Rape Culture”, Sexual Assault, and Consent
"Tea" Video (language warning!)
"Tea" Video (clean version)
Audrie & Daisy (documentary - Netflix)
The Hunting Ground (documentary - Amazon)
I am Evidence (documentary - HBO)
It Happened Here (documentary - Amazon)
Surviving R. Kelly (documentary - Netflix)
Jeffrey Epstein: Filthy Rich (documentary - Netflix)
Anatomy of a Scandal (A drama series on Netflix about a London politician accused by a young staffer of rape – goes back to college days and examines consent and does a great job)
Teensource.org (website for teens - this page on healthy relationships)
RAINN (great advice for Bystanders)
The Talk (Making Caring Common Project) - Harvard Graduate School of Education
Sex, Teens, & Everything in Between (Shafia Zaloom)
Relevant Sources
AAUW's Crossing The Line (Sexual Harassment at School)
US Civil Rights Data Collection 2017-18
National Coalition for Women & Girls in Education: Title IX (informational paper)
Title IX Final Rule (sexual harassment)
The Talk (Making Caring Common Project) - Harvard Graduate School of Education
Sex, Teens, & Everything in Between (Shafia Zaloom)
CDC's Youth Risk Behavior Survey (Data Summary and Trends Report 2009-2019)
Teens and Sexual Harassment: Making a Difference (journal article)
Sexual assault incidents among college
undergraduates: Prevalence and factors
associated with risk (journal article)
From No Means No to Yes Means Yes (Vanderbilt Law Review Article)